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Hi Mom,
If you have the monies to have your daughter seen by a child psychologist, please do so immediately. If you do not have the monies to see a private practice doctor, reply with your city and state and I will find you a free service so your daughter can be looked at by a professional.
To answer your question, yes, I do believe she could be suffering from PTS (post-traumatic stress) from the abuse that she was a party to when she was 2.5. Do not wait in hopes that things will get better, they will not. She is not that far off from her teenage years. She needs to be diagnosed for her behavioral issues. Although there are some behavioral issues with children that are autistic, as a Mother I would want to know for sure whether that was all that was going on and to get guidance on what to do. The answers are out there! Good Luck Mom let me know if I can be of any further service to you.
 
Barbara Antinoro
Educational Counselor
Kid Angel Foundation
Education.com Team

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i am sorry new to this site here so i guess i accidently flagged you when i was trying to reply,. any way i see a developmental peditrician regularly and alyssa is starting a new school this fall with a new program called the star program, they picked my daughter alyssa specically because they know our historty so i am hoping this helps., i am a low income person and am not sure what is covered by ssi or medic aide ,. san tonio texas,.mm

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Hi Mom!
I am so glad to hear that you are already seeing a developmental pediatrician! That’s great news. You need to relay to him/her what you have said in your posts. The Doctors office may be able to administer the tests needed or they can give you a referral to a psychologist or psychiatrist that can! You should be in good shape. Make waves Mom and insist that she get tested so that you can rule out if her behavioral issues have to do with exposure at a young age to traumatic events.
 
Barbara Antinoro
Educational Counselor
Kid Angel Foundation
Education.com Team

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THANKS,.MM

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i am glad you think so too and not just my imagination  and me over reacting, he came  to visit in april for her 10th burthday and alyssa said very liitle  to him and even when he left had nothing to do with him, his anwer or comments on past visits with her when she would self stim or have a meltdown was to tell me to squirt her with a squirt gun in the face,. we went to mexico this past x mas and there where two little boys by the pool trying to squirt alyssa with a squirt gun and she was so  upset i had to move her to a different area of the pool , no parents around at the pool to confront them about what the boys where doing,. any way since april her  so called dad which i jokingly now call sperm donor i told his mom when she came by to give shoes since he got the wrong size to not back back and visit to confusing for alyssa and  difficult for myself,. what people do not realize whom basically say you  should be over it by now, when you have been emtionally abused and verbally abused daily though there are no physical sings or bruises it is  something i feel in my heart i will never forget and has changed me forever,. he when we where married threatened to have me put away because  of my adhd, no how stupid is that., what is sad alittle over a year or so ago i found  out when i was at the autism  walk a former  high school clasmate mate of ours told me has fathered another child,. to this day he still owes me over a   years wortyh of child support talking to the attorney generals office i just get the run around last time spoke with them they had him listed owning a sports bar which is bs he quit that over 2 to 3 years ago and i have given them his moms address and telephone numbers several

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continued next page- times so any way just a very frusrating situation all around unless someone walks in our shoes i do not want to hear what they have to say,.mm

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