car seat

Hi br825,
 
Wow, what a tough situation!  Do you know if he's doing it "intentionally" (as in to get out of his seat belt) or if he's doing it "by accident" (as in he's just pushing a button that looks like it's just waiting to be pushed)?
 
If it's the by accident, I wonder if you could just cover the buckle so that it's less enticing for him to push.  I've seen sheepskin strap covers at Babies R Us that might work.  You can also talk to him and let him know how important his seat belt is.  Without being too scary, let him know that if your car ever bumped into another car, his seatbelt would keep him nice and safe but if it's unclicked it can't do it's job.  If he worships police / firemen the way my boys do you could also tell him that they police will be upset if he undoes his seat belt because it's a rule that it needs to be clicked.
 
If he's undoing it on purpose, you've got a bigger problem!  You could try the same talk I suggested above.  But he really needs to know that the car will not move if his seatbelt is undone.  Depending on his temperament, this could backfire on you and become a way he tries to control you.  It may become kind of a game for him to see you pull over and re-do it every time he undoes it.  You may have to do something extreme like turn around and go back home if he undoes the buckle when you're on your way somewhere fun for him (like a play date or a class).
 
I can't wait to hear what ideas other parents have.  This is a tricky one!
 
Good luck and let us know what ends up working.
Kat
Education.com Community Team

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we have the same problem with my 19 month grandson. ( and he means too) I have no advice except try to keep him entertained with music or movies, other than that pull over fix his straps and back on the road. Anyone have advice we would love it.

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HELLO BR825 THIS IS A TOUGH SITUATION. I BELIEVE THAT IF YOU KEEP SOMETHING IN HIS HANDS , SO HES NOT FOCUSED ON THE SEATBELT MIGHT HELP. THEN AGAIN IF YOU THREATEN TO TAKE AWAY SOMETHING HE ADORS, AND THINKS ABOUT ALOT MAY HELP HIM TO FOLLOW THE RULES. YOU HAVE TO PLAY HIS GAME TO WIN. THE THINGS YOU TAKE AWAY COULD BE A FAVORITE TOY OR EVEN  A FAVORITE PLACE HE LOVES TO GO, AND BE SERIOUS AND STAY IN CONTROL HE HAS TO GET THE POINT. HE WILL GIVE UP AND THEN YOU HAVE WON.

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Hi,
 
I had the same problem for a while. My son is 3 and he used to do the same thing. I followed all the suggestions that were given to you, it finally worked.
I did pull over a few times and explained to him how important is was to keep the belt buckled. I also got very, very ungry a few times as well. I think he got the message the message in the end.
 
Hope this helps.
 
Regards

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