10 New-Age Relaxation Techniques for Kids

10 New-Age Relaxation Techniques for Kids

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Updated on Aug 5, 2013

Childhood isn’t always the carefree time it’s cracked up to be. Studies show that one in ten kids suffer from mental health problems including stress, anxiety and depression. Time-outs and cuddles can only do so much, says Michele Pullo. The creator of says relaxation techniques can help kids cope with the pressures of modern life.

“Children today are under an enormous amount of stress,” she says. “If children can learn to practice relaxation techniques now, just as they learn to read and write, they’ll be better able to self-regulate their emotions and deal with stress when it comes their way.”

While Pullo’s company teaches relaxation techniques through guided workshops, she offers a few that are simple enough for anyone to learn:

Hold Relaxing Rocks

Find smooth stones that fit comfortably in a little hand for this exercise. Teach him to breathe in deeply and squeeze the stone as hard as he can. Tell him he’s sending all the negative emotions he’s feeling into the stone. He should slowly exhale and relax his fingers once he’s squeezed as hard as he can, secure in the knowledge that his problems are now trapped in the stone.

Blow Bubbles

Blowing bubbles is a time-tested pastime for kids, but it’s also a great relaxation technique. Encourage your child to take a deep breath in, and then blow out all his worries and bad feelings into his bubble. As he watches his bubble float away, he can imagine his troubles disappearing too.

Wear Eye Pillows

Focus doesn’t come naturally for everyone, but Pullo says that weighted eye pillows can help. “They are made to create a weighted sensation on a child’s eyes and forehead,” she says. “Weighted blankets are used for some children with autism spectrum disorders. This is a similar idea, but I’ve found that most children can benefit from this soft, gently weighted pillow.”

Try Mindful Walking

Mindful walking takes the principles of mindful meditation and puts it in a more kid-friendly context. In mindful meditation, we are encouraged to sit quietly and calmly as we focus on the sensations we feel. In mindful walking, your child concentrates on his feet as he walks, noticing how they bend and move as they move forward and how the ground feels underneath them. By shifting focus to the feet, he takes his mind off his problems.

Listen to Binaural Beats

Music has always been a relaxation tool, but binaural beats aren’t quite music. They are sounds that are listened to through headphones, with different frequencies piped through each ear. The variance in frequencies and “pulsating” feel of binaural beats help stimulate signals in the brain that reduce stress. You can find binaural beats (also called binaural tones) with a quick Internet search.

Stretch and Breathe

Practicing yoga is a great way for children to relax. One of the most calming positions is even called child’s pose! Have your bundle of energy kneel down with his backside resting on his ankles. Have him stretch his arms forward until his hands and forehead rest on the floor and his stomach rests on his thighs. This pose effectively shuts the world out and helps people get a soothing moment of rest.

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