I have 3 children a girl 5, a girl 3 and a boy 1 and might adopt a boy 13 and a girl 6--how will this affect my children--birth order and all...

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Louiseasl

Apr 15, 2011

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What the Expert Says:

Hello and thank you for writing to JustAsk,

Birth order can be a sticky situation, especially when there are new additions to the family that are "out of order". This happens when there are blended families as well as adoptions.

Consider prepping the children with frequent visits- if possible- of the new children.
Also, consider seeking the advice of a local professional who can be hands on for any problems or to help prepare the children.

These websites may help, also.

http://www.MicheleBorba.com
http://www.Kidlutions.com
http://www.ProactiveParenting.net

Good Luck!

Louise Sattler, Psychologist
Owner of Signing Families

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