I'm a firm believer in not pressuring your children - although I must admit I find it hard myself to stick to that rule with all the focus on competition these days. Some of my son's classmates (he's 7 and &nbsp;in 2nd grade) are not very athletically inclined, or interested. A few, however, have liked fencing or swimming. Also Aikido is a less competitive it seems. What about tennis, golf, roller skating, ice skating or rock climbing? (there are local gyms where you can rock climb). Sometimes individual sports, rather than team sports work better for kids. Who knows what will pique his interest?. As to your comment that he says he wants to keep playing but then it's a fight to get him there, I'd say stop the sport. He's saying one thing with his words, but obviously another with his actions. And then finally, I try to remind myself in moments of frustration or doubt: &quot;this too shall pass. he'll turn out just fine (:&quot;<br />

Wow, after reading this I began to think of myself and how much it reminded me of my childhood. Although my parents signed me up for soccer and I played for 9 years, i was not into it. I did play baseball for one year, and I hated it. My parents did not make me play it again. Then from 3rd-6th grade I played basketball. Again, I was not into playing it. I wasn't even into playing soccer but I did to make my parents happy. They weren't sports fanatics either, but my fater was very athletic in school I felt like I needed to be like him.<br />
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Once I realized and was able to admit sports weren't for me, I found working out at the gym to be very fulfilling. Again, as a child I knew I was not into team sports. I would just stare and not be interested. My parents wanted me to get physical, and the only way they knew in the 80's was through team sports. Maybe the gym would be a good outlet to do as a family affair. I was olways more book smart and into the academic aspect of life. I don't know, just a thought. I know you aren't pressuring him, so keep it up. He might want to keep signing up because he knows it is expected, a societal expectation. Peace<br />

Brad, your situation is quite understandable. &nbsp;Your son, and other children at that age, are not developmentally ready for sports! &nbsp;It's that simple. &nbsp;He's telling you loud and clear that he's not ready. &nbsp;He and his peers are still in the normal, healthy phase where free play should occupy his free time, not organized sports. &nbsp;Through age nine, children are still developing their brains through lots of varied movements they get through free play. &nbsp;Running, jumping, crawling, climbing, rolling, swinging, balancing on logs, digging, building, day-dreaming, and listening to the wind are still helping to organize the child's senses and information about the world. &nbsp;Once that is accomplished, they are interested and able to begin practicing specific and repetitive movements towards mastery of a sport, or musical instrument, or academics.<br />
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OK, I understand the appeal of an organized after-school activity. &nbsp;How about organizing a play afternoon at the park or field? &nbsp;Bring along a large ball and a medium ball, and see what the kids invent themselves. &nbsp;If they are interested in ball games, they will invent one with their own rules! &nbsp;This builds social skills as well as motor ones, toward future success in athletics or anything else.<br />
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Did you know that the main reason children under the age of 12 play sports? &nbsp;Because it's important to one or both parents. &nbsp;And, did you know that 75% of all children who start athletics have quit for good by the age of 12? &nbsp;That's because they began not out of their own motivation, but for other reasons...mainly parents. &nbsp;Athletes who begin later, towards the age of 12, stay in the sport longer and play with fewer injuries because they began at the right time.<br />
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Of course this is counter-culture in our sports-obsessed land, but think about it.<br />
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Sports are for later, for meeting the increasing physical and emotional challenges of impending puberty, adolescence and adulthood. &nbsp;I know it's hard to wait. &nbsp;I was there myself with a rambunctious 5-year old who had tantrums and kicked the walls. &nbsp;I thought soccer was the answer, but a kindly teacher set me straight and redirected me and his energy into more appropriate activities. &nbsp;For the next few years, my son swam, rode horses, rode a scooter ang then a bike, played lots and lots of catch with his dad (highly recommended!), played backyard volleyball with beach balls, and just messed around with free play with neighbor kids and arranged playdates with classmates. &nbsp;It took extra effort, but it paid off. &nbsp;He played baseball all-stars all the way through high school, and as an adult, still plays on masters teams when he has a chance.<br />
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All children need unstructured time to grow, without media involvement or adult direction. &nbsp;Its a great gift we can give them, if we only can.<br />
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Good luck!<br />

it is an interesting problem i teach a karate class and find most kids have a friend with them you dont say if he has a friend with him.some kids find sport for social and friendship resons soccor and other team sports can be very competive to get a place on the team and a lot of kids dont make the mark in my class the only compitation is with the kid him self and most delvlop at their own PACE if he does not make the team he wont want to go for long just keep encurraging him and find some thing he can do with his best friend of bring him back to a sport that he can progress at his own pace fun in sports is best skill training will come later remenber he is only six

regards noel