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After coming back from vacation in homecountry, my 3 yrs son is refusing home car and nursery, not listening throwing tantrums & today bit his friend.
I live & work abroad since 2 yrs with my 3 yrs son &nanny.My husband is working in another country&comes every weekend.We love our child so much &give him a lot of attention.our parenting style is a mix of permisive &democratic,not perfect, but he's peacefull ¬ agreesive,maybe also cus we do't shout at him or hit him but explain why we ask to do this &that.He's cooperative to a ceratian extent but not fully,cus we'r not strict in putting limits.anyway,he was manageable till 1 month back:Every 2 months we visit our homecountry for 10 days vacation where he enjoys familiy gatherings &most important the house with large garden where he spends most of the time playing in the soil &with cousins.when we go back abroad he usually welcomes his routine life &does't miss homecountry too much,till last vacation.When we returned this time,he is refusing our house car and nurdery saying all the time"i am sad,i do not want this house,i want homecountry house".His behavior startred to change,not listenning,throwing tantrums if i do't give or buy him what he wants,hitting his neighbor friend that he plays with everyday.I've been striving since 1 month to overcome his stress by spending more time playing with him,coming early from work,going out&making activities ALL time in weekend,buying pets but with no vain till he bite his friend today.At start i made a mistake i'm afraid it counteraffected my efforts.I said to him"if u do't want this house then i do't want homecountry house"
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Discipline and behavior challenges
> 60 days ago
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