Yes! cyberbullying is a big deal. In fact, along with regular bullying it is responsible for many of the self esteem, social and anxiety and depression issues suffered by kids and teens.

If you think your child is being bullied or cyberbullied take action even if your child asks you not to (bullied kids are often afraid that parent intervention will make things worse, but it won't). If the cyberbullying is happening in school, speak to an administrator, don't give up--save evidence from your child's phone or computer. If it is happening outside of school, speak to the bully's parent: don't be intimidated--bullies sometimes have bullying parents. Be polite, don't yell, but stand up for your child. If necessary change your child's cell phone number. Check the computer frequently.

Teens are no less vulnerable to cyberbullying than younger kids. Teach your teen not to tolerate cyberbullying. It often comes in the form of fake screen names and blocked cell phone #'s.

if your child becomes sad, depressed, withdrawn or in any way changed, don't ignore it. Bullying can be very destructive to a child's self esteem.

If you find out that your child is a cyberbully, DON'T become defensive or ignore it. Take action! Help your child understand how hurtful this behavior is. Issue appropriate consequences (take away the cell phone or computer for a period of time, write an apology letter). However, don't assume it has stopped. Remain vigilant and don't be in denial--you wouldn't want your child in the position of the kids in the article below!

Any other thoughts, ideas, and tips that work for you would be great. The cyber world is tough to negotiate, we all need as much help as possible!

Dr. Susan Bartell
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