What the Expert Says:
Here are some possible things you can do to address your 6 yr old complaints about kindergarten being boring.
1. Speak to the teacher and see how your daughter is responding in school. What she is reporting to you and how she is behaving may not match. Ask the teacher: Is your child engaged? Is she acting distracted?
Is she complaining about being bored in school? Is there anything else going on that she may be experiencing that she may label "boring?"
2. Speak to other staff who interact with your daughter and ask similar questions of other teachers, guidance counselor, principal.
How do they perceive your child experiencing school?
3. Talk to her when she is home, and ask her some questions.
What is making her feel bored? What does she enjoy in school?
What does she not? Notice I avoid "yes/no" questions, though there may be a place for them, such as, "Are you feeling okay in school?"
I also stay away from "Why?" "Why" usually gets an "I don't know."
Observe:
Does she seem upset about something? Is she acting in atypical ways?
Does she say this every day? Or is it intermittent?
Of course, she may actually be bored, because what is being taught may be too easy.But sometimes kids say they are bored if they are tired in school or stressed about something. She may even be getting hungry at certain times and may need an extra snack.
Do a little research and see what you can discover, but take encouragement because this may pass on its own.
Bette Freedson, LICSW, LCSW, CGP
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