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My daughter is bullied in school and no one will help me. I am worried about my daughter's safety.
i am a concerned parent my daughter is in the 6 grade and for 3 years now as been bullied by a boy in her class. I have spoken to the parents of this child, and with the principal and school board. There was one case where he got her ans bruised her ribs and hit her enough that her liver swelled. She was admitted in the hospital and treated. The RCMP has been involved to speak to this boy but nothing is working. She has several medical problems and many is caused by the bullying. I am at the end of my rope. She is scared to go to school and i am feared for her life. This boy has told her that he is going to put her in the grave. I have written letters to the school and to the school board. The only thing that was done was the boy was spoke to by the teachers and principal and RCMP. She has told all the school officials what has happened but it seems to me that they don't believe her. The last attack was like 2 days ago and she was beaten badly. Just wondering if anyone know what i can do next the only thing that i can think of doing is move. Any ideas of what i can do would be great.. Thanks for reading my post i just hope that this will end soon.....
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My Relationship with my child's school, Bullying and teasing
> 60 days ago
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Does your school district offer open enrollment? If it does, you can transfer schools if there is space available in the school of your choice. You may have to arrange transportation for your child. Get her out of there. Is there any one who could home school your daughter? There are many online homeschooling programs available. Many are free and your daughter would be at home taking online classes. Pray. I will pray for you and your daughter.
> 60 days ago
Hi.
The bullying in schools nowadays is just horrible. I was in 6th Grade when I was bullied also. It was pretty rough on me as well. I was bullied for the longest time. The school board didn't do much for me. All they did was tell me to try and be friends. They sent me to counseling during lunch. It was pretty hectic. I would suggest sending her to another school or possibly home school. There is no telling what that boy might do. Kids bully the person that looks easier to pick on. Usually the sweet and innocent kids are the ones who get picked on. The kids who bully other kids may have something wrong with them. Maybe like an emotional or physical problem in there homes or growing. Which could result in something bad. I would definitely suggest you send her to another school. My parents sent me to another school and I thought it was the best decision my parents ever made. The bullying stopped and I enjoyed the rest of my years in school until I graduated. Bullying is everywhere. You just gotta know how to deal with it and if you cant then just escape it.
I hope I helped you in some way !!
The bullying in schools nowadays is just horrible. I was in 6th Grade when I was bullied also. It was pretty rough on me as well. I was bullied for the longest time. The school board didn't do much for me. All they did was tell me to try and be friends. They sent me to counseling during lunch. It was pretty hectic. I would suggest sending her to another school or possibly home school. There is no telling what that boy might do. Kids bully the person that looks easier to pick on. Usually the sweet and innocent kids are the ones who get picked on. The kids who bully other kids may have something wrong with them. Maybe like an emotional or physical problem in there homes or growing. Which could result in something bad. I would definitely suggest you send her to another school. My parents sent me to another school and I thought it was the best decision my parents ever made. The bullying stopped and I enjoyed the rest of my years in school until I graduated. Bullying is everywhere. You just gotta know how to deal with it and if you cant then just escape it.
I hope I helped you in some way !!
> 60 days ago
The bullying is horrible... But it will not stop unless you do anything about it. You tried the "grown-up" way... I would just tell my daughter that next time the boy comes close to her to bully her to punch him in the private parts as hard as she can or hit him (with anything that she can get her hands on - chair ruler, rock) nice and good in the face. If he sees that she is no longer the "victim" and will stand up for her self he will leave her alone. Also maybe you should have a private talk with the boy - have someone male do it. Threaten him if needed. The good american system that will take your kids away from you if u dare to raise your hand at them at home tolerates such bullying at school without consequences is absolutely ridiculous!!! I know it might sound shady but this is your daughter and she can be scarred for life if you do not do anything about it. She should not make the bully's life comfortable and moving or getting home schooled - she has a right to be happy!!!
> 60 days ago
I don't really know how to help you but I do know that hitting that boy back will only make problems for your daughter. I know that you must be tired, scared, and frustrated with what is happening to your daughter so you must not give up. Do whatever you have to so she will be safe. If the school staff won't listen go higher and don't stop. I am going through the same thing with my son and the school did nothing about it. When he was threatened with rape I went higher... unfortunately my family is now being retaliated on. BUT I will not give up. No matter how many times you are ignored, no matter how alone you feel... please know that your not. I hope everything works out for you and your family. I will keep all of you in my prayers.
> 60 days ago
If she is being beaten so badly, then why are you not changing schools or homeschooling? Why send her to that school? I am just wondering. It sounds like you need to PULL HER OUT and now! Send her to a local private school if you have to. Just get her out.
> 60 days ago
Hi,, I just read your story and I got chills.. I am sooo sorry that your daughter had to go through all of that. I think that the next resort you may need to do is call the police. or sue the school system or the parents of the boy. press charges.. Why should you move.. That is not the answer.. Your daughter did not do anything wrong. You should not have to move at all. My daughter is being bullied..I cant get her to talk about more than just what one girl did.. she said that she was getting dirty looks. I try to get her to school and she is scared.. she just wont go. I know that a bully wont stop until you stand up to them.. but in your case...you need to take it a step further...police and state officials. I do wish you the best of luck to bring this boy down. He doesnt deserve to be in that school..He should be the one to move...He should have charges pressed to him. Good Luck....:)
> 60 days ago
it is so hard i went to everyone when my daughter was bullied. we need tough laws and harsh punishments. i am new to this don't stop trying. sadly my daughter took her own life tired of the torment and horrible things people said to her.
> 60 days ago
I had a similar situation when my daughter was in High school. She was constantly harassed and her hair was cut by a group of girls. I went the school and made several complaints, the administration told me that they would take care of it. My daughter was terrified to go to school and was suffering from anxiety as a result of this situation. I tried to discharge her from the school, but the principal was making it impossible for me to continue with this process. I went to the police precinct and filed a report on the incidents and returned it to the school principal. He discharged her immediately and suspended the group of girls. My daughter attended a different school and was very happy. She has since graduated and has thanked me for stepping in and giving her a new life.
> 60 days ago
I had a similar situation when my daughter was in High school. She was constantly harassed and her hair was cut by a group of girls. I went the school and made several complaints, the administration told me that they would take care of it. My daughter was terrified to go to school and was suffering from anxiety as a result of this situation. I tried to discharge her from the school, but the principal was making it impossible for me to continue with this process. I went to the police precinct and filed a report on the incidents and returned it to the school principal. He discharged her immediately and suspended the group of girls. My daughter attended a different school and was very happy. She has since graduated and has thanked me for stepping in and giving her a new life.
> 60 days ago
Dear Parent, I find it truly hard to believe the school officials have done nothing. I wonder does she give the officials a reason for not believing her? You said I quote two days ago "she was beaten badly". If this was true the principal would have expelled him and the police would have taken him in on charges.
Are you exaggerating?
Are you exaggerating?
> 60 days ago
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