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My grandson is being bullied by my daughter's partner.
The boyfriend is 26, ex army and lazy around the house and is a big eater and overweight.
My daughter is 4 years older, a very nervous person who has never had a proper job.
They've been together 3 years.
My daughter moved in with her boyfriend a year ago and had a baby in February.
The boyfriend is making my grandson very unhappy as he says he does not want him to live with them, makes him cry saying he won't eat or something mean about his eating even before he starts to eat and when it all gets very tense he drags my grandson by his jumper away from the table or up the stairs to bed.
All this happens in front of me so I worry about what it is like when I am not there.
My daughter is siding with the boyfriend as she is frightened she will be homeless as it is his house. The boyfriend has started saying unkind things to her too.
I have gotten very cross with them both and have helped out by taking my grandson over night to relieve the pressure but it's not making much difference.
My daughter won't go to the doctor for help as she says they will say why didn't she go before, I've said better late than never.
I have spoken to the boyfriend's mother and she has tried speaking to him.
What more can I do?