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Justanotheremogirl
Justanother... asks:
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A reason to live?

I'm depressed, suicidle, cutter, emo, lesbian who is constently the center of bulling and my 'friends' are never there when they say they will be. Should I just kill myself?
In Topics: Dyslexia, Anxiety, Cutting
> 60 days ago

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LouiseSattler
Feb 11, 2014
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What the Expert Says:

Dear Friend,

Please know that there are people who care and connect immediately with help, such as at an emergency room or counseling center. Your school should be able to help you through these steps as well, particularly the School Counselor or School Psychologist.

And of course help is simply a call away- via emergency services. There is much to live for, even if it is  difficult to see that today.  


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TheTechGeekKnowsBetter
TheTechGeek... , Student writes:
i know how it feels :/ dont kill urself... kill that feeling that makes u think so... no one ever realizes how good life is... everyone looks over at the dark side...
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RedCard
RedCard writes:
No. Contact a helpline first of all, and they will help you more than this website or I can. Second of all, think about how it would affect not just you... But all the people around you.
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TheTechGeekKnowsBetter
TheTechGeek... , Student writes:
Note: Forget my last comment.., yeah, life really is bad... but killing oneself is not the solution to all problems...
> 60 days ago

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msdove
msdove writes:
No.  Better days are coming and you won't be here to see and enjoy them.  People you are going to meet will not get the chance to enjoy you and you wont get the chance to enjoy them.  Forget those creeps in your building.  They won't be in your life forever.  They matter less than you think right now.  Keep on living. You'll see what I mean and be really glad!
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rudolffairbanks
rudolffairb... writes:
Hello friend, don't think bad things. live with hope and joy.
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saahi
saahi writes:
hello friend,u hav a problem so find a solution...do not try escaping it.it doesnt relieve you.u dont have friends...visit an orphanage or the destitutes,ul understand what a problem really is.... its a gift to be born as a human being understand how lucky you are.. all the best
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Country_dude
Country_dude , Student writes:
I had to help another friend who wanted to kill himself as well.

YOU DO have a lot to live for. many people who actually want to kill themselves are actually being selfish(Shockingly). They are looking for self pity and they want to make people feel bad by killing themselves.

There are people that love you and care about you. Your parents and siblings can sometimes seem like they don't care about and would not care if you died, but in reality they would miss you terribly. Just think how you would feel if a brother or sister or even a parent died?

You are a pretty girl who has all the world to live for. You can continue with school eventually find a boyfriend who believes that you are the prettiest girl in the world and really cares about. You can continue and make a career. Never mind those people who say negative things about you, they just want to make themselves look better. Who cares what other people think!

Don't respond emotionally to bullying and give those kids the satisfaction of seeing that they upset you. Many times if you ignore them, they will see that they don't have any power over you.

Just Remember, You DO have a reason to live!
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Joshs_mommy_09
Joshs_mommy... writes:
First off, been there.  Okay, I am not a lesbo, as u put it..but I was always different.  I wasn't, however, thin, and pretty like u r, I grew into it later..but in middle school and early high school..i was a loner.  Killing yourself is a very selfish way to put a permanent drastic end to a very temporary problem.  School, kids, this, right now, doesn't really matter.  In the real world, u will find your place.  Just remember, u can make tomorrow whatever u want it to be.  You are loved and special, and all that junk. Believe it because it is most definitely true. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks. Just do you. Being ordinary would be more of a reason to be depressed.. embrace what is different about u, to hell with anyone that doesn't accept you too btw. They ain't shit. U GOT THIS.
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JulieA1121
JulieA1121 writes:
No for the love of god no! Look life here is short OK make the most of it fall in love and society doesn't matter your friends suck so what?! Everyone's do and take this from someone who tried to commit suicide twice. OK? The rest of your life want feel or be this way if you don't want it to. Make things happen for yourself. You direct Your life. You're beautiful and smart. Don't waste it. Because there's only one you, and you're irrreplacable.
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ZackAnthonyWolf
ZackAnthony... , Student writes:
because people love you, i know how it feels when people hate you, tell you to die, and they make fun of you,. its hard, listen, i am 14 and already know life aint easy,
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ZackAnthonyWolf
ZackAnthony... , Student writes:
because people love you, i know how it feels when people hate you, tell you to die, and they make fun of you,. its hard, listen, i am 14 and already know life aint easy,
60 days ago

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lauriesolawetz
lauriesolaw... writes:
You do have so much to live for. This time in your life is just the beginning. You have so many paths to discover. Life changes so much from day to day. The opportunities come to you through your growing years. You learn to choose paths that are right for you not anyone else. You learn to do what makes you happy and you will realize one day that what happened in the past was  and the future is  Now for you. Grab that energy of what you want to become and go for it. Don't let anyone else tell you differently or let them put you down. Your better than that and can show it through the choices you make to make your life better each day. Go for it! Discover what you like sports, reading, movies, outdoor fun, writing, poetry, biking and so much more. Friends will come and go through your life.
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Lisa18967 writes:
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