Parenting teens is not easy, but can be rewarding.  First lay out the house ground rules, so that she knows what is expected of her.  Also, let her know what are the consequences for breaking the rules.  Once there is a structure of some sort, be consistent with reinforcement of the rules/consequences.  That will make communication about responsibilities easier.

Teens don't like to preached to and avoid getting speeches.  One approach to talk to your daughter is to have a good conversation while watching television.  Select movies that you'll watch with her and discuss issues seen in them.  When she realizes that you are not judgmental towards others and actually have a good advice or two, she might open up to you.  Although aloof towards parents, teens need as much parental love as when they were small children, if not more.  Be patient, loving, understanding, but firm if it comes to values that you want to pass on to your daughter.

Please read these articles:

Milestones of adolescence

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Talk to your adolescents

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How to diffuse an angry of explosive teen

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