Lisacj21 asks:

Step dad v step son

I have a son to a previous relationship and before I met my husband now everything was great in fact it was great with me him Nd my son until we got married. Now my son is constantly playing games with his step dad and his step dad gets outraged after the years he has spent getting along with him and putting all his effort in to him ( which as a step dad a lot don't do). I have constant arguments and feel the strain from both sides thus leaving me more stressed than the two arguing. I'm in such a hard position as I love my OH and my first born but also have two sons with my husband. I feel sometimes my eldest plays games to try and split us up as once his dad had split from his wife he wanted more time with him, before that when he was married my son didn't want to know and caused problems for them. I just don't understand why he would play such games and cause everyone else misery for himself as he never wants for anything including my attention and love. Please can someone help and advise? I love my husband so much but at the same time could never throw my son out he's mine and I love him. I based my life round him to ensure he was safe loved and provided for. Heartbroken :0( xx
In Topics: Blended families
> 60 days ago



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