I am worried sick about my 15 year old step daughters eating disorder. Her mother has told me to butt out and her dad my husband isn't doing anything about it. We have been married for ten years and the mom and my husband still can't talk to each other. It is so sad to watch!!! I was thinking about talking to her HS consoler but not sure if it will be confidential, or if I can even can or should get involved as a step parent. HELP!!!