I really need advice.. I'm stuck between two guys, In which, one of them are my ex's I dated for almost 2 years. then came the big break up.. we fought almost every single day, people told me i deserved better, i became depressed for months... because i felt like he didn't care. then we were on & off after we broke up.. but it was just a friends with benefits thing, ya know? and I didn't want that. so we got into an argument, & stopped talking for the longest time, MONTHS. then this other guy came along.. i met him about 5 months ago, and eventually we added each other as friends on Facebook, and it became more than just friends. we developed feelings for each other... but the thing is, he's a little older than me, & he thinks it's a big deal.. when really it's not that much of a difference. but the thing is, me and my ex started talking again, and feelings showed up again. and it sucks cause i don't want to lead any of them on.. i still care deeply about my ex, but I just don't want him to hurt me and make me feel like the way he did the last few months in our past relationship. same with the new guy i met. but new guy, he told me he had strong feelings for me, in fact.. just last night he invited me over for a movie & it was great.. we had a really good time.. he's more respectful and nice and makes me so happy.. he told me he wants to be with me in the future, just not at the moment.. but he said he's faithful to me. help me please :( i don't know what to do or say.