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Getting a Good Start: Expectations, Challenges and Fostering Growth in the Child's First Year of Life (page 2)

By Anita Gurian, Ph.D.
NYU Child Study Center
Updated on Jul 9, 2010

Social and emotional development: the foundation

Sammy, 7 months, doesn't like to eat, sleeps for short periods, screams, and is difficult to comfort when he's cranky.

Lisa, 7 months, established a regular schedule easily, is friendly, smiles readily and is eager to be sociable.

Drew, 7 months, is cautious, quiet, not physically active, and doesn't enjoy new experiences.

Temperament

Obvious differences among infants can be seen right from the start. Each infant has a unique inborn temperament or typical way of reacting to the world. Some cry a lot, some are quiet, some sleep on a fairly regular schedule, others wake at irregular hours; some are constantly wriggling; others lie in their cribs quietly for long periods of time. Some are born with a tendency toward certain moods and styles of reacting to people and events in their lives. This preferred style of responding - a child's first and most natural way of reacting - is called temperament.

Temperament researchers have created three broad categories of temperament - easy, difficult, and slow-to-warm up.

  • Easy children (40%) are calm, happy, regular in sleeping and eating habits, adaptable, not easily upset. Routines are quickly established
  • Difficult children (10%) are often fussy, irregular in feeding and sleeping habits, fearful of new people and situations, easily upset, highstrung, and intense in their reactions
  • Slow-to-warm-up children (15%) - are relatively inactive and fussy, tend to withdraw or to react negatively to novelty, but their reactions in new situations gradually become more positive with experience
  • Other babies (35%) typically show a mix of the easy, difficult and slow-to-warm-up profiles

Goodness of fit

No matter what the child's temperament, it's the harmony between child and a primary caregiver that's most important. The behavior of one influences the response of the other. The special bond between infants and their caregivers is known as attachment. When the attachment is solid, the caregiver provides a secure base for the child's emotional and social growth.

Milestones

Birth to 4 months:

  • Even the earliest smiles and cries convey meaning
  • Makes sounds or moves to get attention
  • Develops a social smile; gazes at faces that are about 8 to 12 inches away
  • Cries to show discomfort or fatigue; smiles, gurgles and coos when happy or excited
  • Plays with his own hands
  • Smiles and laughs when talked to
  • Responds to caregivers faces, smiles and voices

5 - 8 months:

  • Actively seeks interaction
  • Starts to show interest in another child
  • Searches surroundings for people and new items
  • Laughs at funny faces
  • Shows anger when toy is taken away
  • Smiles and laughs at baby games
  • Starts to imitate the inflection in people's voices
  • Shows pleasure and displeasure
  • Cries when separated from caregiver
  • Prefers familiar persons to others; may fear strangers

8 - 12 months:

  • Plays and tests social reactions of others by doing "unusual" or "naughty" things
  • Smiles at, pats or even kisses his own image in mirror
  • May refuse to be confined in crib or play pen
  • Buries head in parent's shoulder when meeting new people
  • Shows moods by facial expressions
  • Plays interactive games such as peek-a-boo and patty-cake
  • Seeks approval and responds to "no"
  • Offers toys to others
  • Helps with getting dressed and maybe putting things away
  • Will search for a person, pet or item when they are mentioned
  • Uses sounds, gestures and facial expressions to gain attention
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