Grandparents and Other Relatives Raising Children: Respite Care (page 2)

— Generations United
Updated on Dec 16, 2008

Why Grandparents and Other Relatives Raising Children Need Respite

Grandparents and other relatives often take on the role of caregiver suddenly, with little or no warning. They may become caregivers because of a number of parental problems, and the children in these situations may exhibit a number of difficult behaviors. There are many reasons why children come to be in their care of their grandparents. Some, such as parental substance abuse or premature death of a parent, can have long-term implications for the child’s health and wellbeing. Older caregivers may also have health needs of their own that make respite an important service to these families.

Relative caregivers may be dealing with adjusting to parenting a second time in combination with learning to address behavioral issues and stress caused by disruptions in family life. They may confront social, emotional, financial, and legal challenges that were not present when they raised their own children. Older or retired grandparents, in particular, may experience personal changes and problems that tax them emotionally and physically. Regardless of age, caregivers may need respite from their responsibilities in order to maintain the strength they need to effectively care for children.

Respite Legislation 

Responding to the growing need for respite care services for families, the Lifespan Respite Care Act was passed by Congress and signed into law in 2006 to coordinate respite care services for caregivers. However, the funds to support this important work have not yet been appropriated. Several states have also passed respite legislation, which establish state and local infrastructures for developing, providing, coordinating, and improving access to respite care for eligible residents.

Model Programs

For grandparents and other relatives raising children, respite services are available through caregiving networks and NFCSP programs. Services can be administered by the AAAs, and those with whom they contract. Some of the examples below demonstrate how AAA NFCSP-funded respite programs address the respite needs of relative caregivers.

Oregon's Lifespan Respite Program is one of the oldest respite programs in the country. The state provides start-up and ongoing funding to local networks to facilitate access to respite for all families and individuals. These networks: maintain a local list of trained in-home respite service providers; conduct outreach to caregivers and connect them to services and payment options; provide referrals and related services; identify gaps in services available in communities; provide educational information and training on how to care for themselves and their loved ones; and deliver ongoing training for respite providers. For more information, contact Lee Girard 503-373-1726, or visit

The Oklahoma Respite Resource Network (ORRN) provides respite services for the Aging Services Division of the Oklahoma Department of Human Services. ORRN is a lifespan respite care initiative that uses federal, state, and private dollars to fund respite services to many different caregivers, including grandparents and other relatives raising grandchildren. If a caregiver is selected, DHS issues a voucher to purchase respite services. The voucher can be used to purchase respite service from any provider the caregiver chooses. To assist caregivers in selecting providers, the ORRN publishes a Respite Guide for Families and Providers. After the caregiver and respite provider complete the voucher form, DHS sends payment directly to the respite provider. For more information, contact Robert Adams 405-521-4214, or

Adult Well-Being Services of Detroit, Michigan is a participant in the Brookdale Foundation’s Relatives as Parents Program (RAPP) replication in behavioral health facilities, offering a variety of respite care services through its Grandparents Rearing Grandchildren Program. In this program, other older adults are trained to provide in-home care for children, allowing grandparents to accomplish essential tasks such as going to the doctor or shopping. Educational workshops, support groups and individual information and assistance are also available. Contact: 313-924-7860 or visit

Pierce County, Washington Aging and Long Term Care AAA offers family counseling services and summer youth opportunities for children who are residents of Pierce County and are being raised by grandparent and other relative caregivers over age 55. Services are provided under subcontract with the local mental health agency, Child and Family Guidance Center. Summer youth activities for children ages 4 through 18, including day and residential camp opportunities, are provided in collaboration with local parks and recreation departments, as well as other organizations such as YMCA, Skyhawks, Salvation Army, local schools and community organizations who offer summer recreation activities. For more information, contact Connie Kline 253-798-3782 or , or Edith Owen, 253-565-4484 or

National Resources

Comprehensive national respite information and resources are available through the following:

ARCH National Respite Network and Resource Center assists and promotes the development of quality respite and crisis care programs, helps families locate respite and crisis care services, and serves as a strong voice for respite in all forums. ARCH also provides resource information on state coalitions for respite in each state and the District of Columbia. For more information contact 919-490- 5577 or

National Foster Parent Association offers information and resources on advancing the state of respite programs through training, knowledge development and a respite care program model handbook. Other programs/products available include recruitment and retention of resource families, developing relationships with the schools, advocacy training and a speakers bureau. For more information, contact NFPA at 800-557-5238,, or visit


Respite services can provide relative caregivers with temporary and much needed relief enabling them to better meet the challenges of raising children. State and national initiatives are supporting families by alleviating family and caregiver stress, stabilizing family life, and promoting a healthier, more balanced environment.

For further information, please contact: Generations United (GU), 1331 H Street NW, Suite 900, Washington, D.C. 20005 202-289-3979, Fax: 202289-3952; email: The GU web site at contains additional information about grandfamilies.

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