Infant Temperament (page 2)

slow-to-warm-up Temperament

Babies that have slow-to-warm-up babies also respond slowly and quietly to hunger and other discomforts. This may make it difficult for parents to know when their babies are hungry or uncomfortable.

Tips for Parents with slow-to-warm-up Babies

Parents with slow-to-warm-up babies will gradually adapt to new situations, but they must be given as much time as they need, with no pressure. Parents should try to be aware of their babies' signs of overstimulation and should know when to remove their babies from a situation when this occurs.

Difficult Temperament

Babies with difficult temperaments engage in almost constant physical activity. Children with this temperament may seem restless at times, and they are usually easily distracted. Difficult babies respond vigorously to hunger and other discomforts. Their crying is often loud and intense. At times, difficult babies are very hard to soothe when they're fussy. They also have difficulty soothing themselves. They are usually very light sleepers, and they demand a great deal of attention from parents.

Tips for Parents with Difficult Babies

Parents of babies with difficult temperaments often feel guilty, mistakenly believing that they are somehow at fault for their babies' temperament. These feelings of guilt can often lead to feelings of inadequacy and anxiety. Parents with babies who have difficult temperaments must not blame themselves for their babies' temperament. Instead, they should try to focus on protecting their children from events and situations that are upsetting. Consistency is very important, so a daily routine should be established and adhered to. Parents with babies who have difficult temperaments should try to remain as calm and as patient as possible, and they should try not to place too?high expectations on their babies. These parents should know, too, that their babies won't always have difficult temperaments. As babies approach one year of age, many characteristics of difficult temperaments disappear or diminish.

Finally...

Parents should observe their babies carefully to determine what kind of temperament they have. They should take note of eating and sleeping patterns, how their babies handle new situations, and their general mood. Parents may find that their babies easily fit into one of these categories. On the other hand, babies may express characteristics of more than one general category. Whether their children's temperaments are or are not easily defined, parents should keep in mind that babies are individuals. There is a wide range of what is considered to be normal infant behavior. Parents should try not to be surprised or disappointed with their babies' temperament style. Instead, parents should accept their children for the individuals they are, and learn their likes and dislikes. This will help parents develop the best relationship possible with their children.