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Life After High School: Learning Outside the Classroom (page 3)

By Anita Gurian, Ph.D.
NYU Child Study Center
Updated on Jul 9, 2010

Parents' concerns

Worry: Their son or daughter will not go back to school.

Reality: Many students complete their year off having gained a more specific idea of what career path they want to pursue. Those students who participate in a planned program are more likely to continue in college than those who do not make plans. Some students may not in fact choose to go to college, which may be an appropriate decision.

Worry: The cost of the year off will decrease the money available for tuition.

Reality: The financial investment in the year off varies. Some programs require tuition, others may pay a stipend, thus adding to the money available for tuition. Living arrangements also vary. They are provided by some programs; in others the students pay.

Worry: Students will find it hard to go back to studying and following a curriculum.

Reality: Study skills are not lost in one year. In fact, lack of focus or burnout can be more problematic for students who don't take a year off. Many students who do take the time off enter college with an improved ability to focus and a renewed desire to learn.

Worry: This is just a way of avoiding 'real life.'

Reality: Many students find the time-off experience rewarding and enter their college studies with a more mature and self-directed appreciation of 'real life.'

Worry: Students abroad aren't safe. They could wind up in a prison in a third-world country or get hurt in an accident.

Reality: The vast majority of those who delay college to work or study in foreign countries come back safe and sound.

Ideally, parents and their children should research, explore and agree on the path to take, so that everyone feels excited and committed to the decision.

The value of taking time off to experience and gain from other ways of learning is highlighted in the remarks of Harvard's Dean of Admissions, "Most students would be better off if they were able to get some perspective on themselves, their lives, what they hope to accomplish. The testimony from people who have done this [taken a year off] is extraordinary. It permeates the entire way they think about using university." 2

References and Related Books

1. The vignettes of Alice, James and Lila were furnished by Gail Reardon, Taking Off, 12 Marlborough St., Boston, MA   02116

2. Quoted in the New York Times April 17, 2001

3. Sources For Further Information:

(Web sites when address not listed)

American Field Service

Americorps

British American Educational Foundation

Center for Interim Programs
Cambridge, MA; Princeton, NJ

City Year – Boston

Globe Quest

Earthwatch

Habitat for Humanity

Outward Bound

National Outdoor Leadership School

Taking Off
Gail Reardon, 12 Marlborough St., Boston, MA   02116

Time Out Associates, POBox 503, Milton, MA 02186

Interpoints Inc. Washington Depot, Conn.

Crossroads, Bedford, MA, (781) 280-3774

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