Managing a Home When Everyone Works

Children benefit from helping with household chores. They learn responsibility and work habits. However, it is also important for kids to have plenty of time to be kids. If children have excessive household responsibilities, they don’t have time to play and spend time with friends. These activities may not seem like “work,” but they help children develop their talents and learn important skills, such as self-direction and how to interact with others. The key is to give children age-appropriate tasks that do not interfere too much with their other activities.

Getting everyone to help with household chores can be a challenge. Having a family meeting can help. Schedule a meeting with those who can take responsibility for tasks – Make an appointment with the whole family! Decide what tasks must be done and how often they have to be accomplished. Decide who can do which jobs. Be sure to allow each family member to have input and listen to each person’s ideas. Some families make a chart to rotate jobs. Some family members have favorite jobs. Many jobs have required standards – an early teacher about quality control. A large calendar is an easy way to track who has responsibility for what. After trying out the plan for a week or two, have another family meeting to talk about how well it is working. Make any changes that are needed at that time.

Some household tasks can be done as a family activity, which can help create a sense of closeness. Children can help sort unused clothing and toys for a family fund raiser – a yard sale. Perhaps the proceeds can be used for family fun. These activities might even become new family traditions. Working together as a family to accomplish household tasks helps everything get done, creates a sense of family togetherness, and teaches children responsibility.

For more Information about Balancing work and family visit http://www.familiesandwork.org/. Also, see MU publication GH6653 - Challenges and Choices: Time Effectiveness — Prioritizing Your Time and MU publication GH6641 – Family Councils: The Key is Communication.