Self-Esteem: A Quick Look

Characteristics in Individuals With LD That May Contribute To Feelings of Low Self-Worth:

Communication style and social awareness: in conversation, they may have difficulty judging when or how it is appropriate to participate, or be unaware that their behaviors are annoying to others.

Self-knowledge: they may have trouble understanding their strengths and weaknesses, or reflecting on and evaluating their behavior in social interactions.

Language: they may have trouble expressing their thoughts verbally.

Self-perceived social status: if they have trouble figuring out how they fit into their peer group, they may withdraw from social situations, become passive, or "stick out" in a crowd for trying too hard to fit in.

Self-perceived ability to effect change: they may be prone to believing that they are not capable of controlling their own successes – that luck or fate is responsible for the outcome of a situation, not their own efforts.

Throughout one's life, self-esteem and confidence are critical, and often elusive, ingredients for happiness and success. Individuals with LD are especially vulnerable to attacks on their feelings of self-worth. Family members and peers can help individuals with LD develop positive self-esteem with empathy, respectful communication and attentiveness, acceptance and positive reinforcement. With help and support, they can build the self-esteem it takes to achieve success in any arena.

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