Your Kids, the Internet, and the Law

Libel and defamation — Sites like My Space® give kids and teens a big stage for self-expression, and they’re not shy about using it. In some instances, however, they take things too far, using these sites to attack peers or authority figures. These attacks can sometimes amount to libel or defamation.

Virus writing — Kids have been known to hole up in their rooms and write computer viruses. Some release them into the world. In one case, a teen wrote a worm that caused widespread disruption on the Internet. He ended up being convicted and sentenced under criminal laws.

Credit card abuse — Stealing money from your purse is one thing. Swiping a credit card and going on an online shopping spree takes it to a whole other level. And whether they’re buying music or games or clothes, running up debt in another person’s name (even if it’s a parent’s) is technically identity theft and fraud.

Online con games — Just as kids can buy things they can’t pay for, they can also try to sell things they don’t have. For example, it’s fairly easy to open an online auction account, take a picture of a neighbor’s bicycle, and then offer to sell it online—fully intending to pocket the money and virtually “skip town.”

For example, when the record industry decided to crack down on illegal song downloads, they targeted the person who paid for the downloader’s Internet service. That means some parents, and even grandparents, were named in the lawsuits—even though it was their children or grandchildren who illegally downloaded music.

In another case, two teenage students made false and damaging statements about their assistant principal on a My Space account. The principal sued the students—and their parents—for defamation, libel, negligence, and negligent supervision.

You need to be proactive to keep your kids out of trouble online. Specifically, you need to lay down some rules, lead by example, and help your children understand the potential consequences of illegal online activities.

Start a dialogue — Talk with your kids about how their online actions can cause very real harm to others, and how they could land themselves—and you—in serious legal trouble. Explain what kind of activities are illegal, and let them know you’re available to talk should they wonder whether a contemplated activity is against the law.

Set some ground rules — Place limits on the amount of time your kids spend online. Don’t allow them to shop online without your permission or knowledge. Try to keep your computers in a common area of the house, and consider using parental or administrative controls to restrict access to certain programs and Web sites. Make it clear you won’t tolerate illegal behavior on the Internet, just as you wouldn’t tolerate them stealing or vandalizing your neighborhood.

Stay involved — Once you’ve opened a dialogue and set some ground rules, stay involved in your kids online activities. Ask to see their blogs and My Space profiles. Talk with them about the latest trends and technologies and how they’re using them. Make it fun.