Ain't Misbehaving: Second Grade
Is your child's behavior out of control? The top five reasons kids misbehave--and how to turn it around.
What You Need To Know
When second graders behave badly, it may be that they're having a hard time expressing their feelings. If this sounds a little too touchy-feely, bear in mind that reacting by punishing your child can lead them to shut down in later years.
The most common reasons for their (mis)behavior:
- to meet a need - often a need for power
- to get attention (negative attention counts)
- to get revenge after their feelings have been hurt
- to explore their power by pushing buttons
- to express feelings they don't understand
How You Can Help
Gather information for your arsenal. Check out a book like psychologist Erik Fisher's The Art of Empowered Parenting. Understanding what's happening with your child will ease your frustration.
Try a new approach--working through the behavior, rather than punishing. Ask your second grader for cooperation, rather than getting into a power struggle. "Can you help me by getting your shoes and socks on?"
When your child acts helpless (in order to deal with confusion or a feeling of weakness), don't be too quick to solve the problem for them. Instead, encourage them to do it, letting them know you believe they're capable.
For more on this topic, see the complete article:
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