Behavior - Gaining New Heights

Behavior - Gaining New Heights
photo by: Tom@HK
Idaho Department of Health and Welfare

From about 18 months until Toddler reaches the ripe old age of 2 years, you may begin to wonder if she could be part mountain goat! Climbing up comes soon after walking. The ability to climb down comes some time after the ability to climb up. The adventurous spirit can lead a child to reach upward and explore vertically. Once there, she may cry indignantly because she does not know how to get back down. How can you handle the panic that strikes when you find your child on a table or atop a chest of drawers? You don't want her to fall and hurt herself, but neither do you want to dampen her enthusiasm for exploration. Certainly you don't want to make your child a "fraidy-cat," too timid to explore or to try out new skills. So, be calm. Don't communicate your fright to Toddler. Help her down, but don't snatch her up, comforting and scolding at the same time. When you help her down, you are teaching her how to get down safely. Do communicate the fact that tables and chests are not for climbing. But reserve your instruction until after your child is safely on the ground and after you have had an opportunity to calm down. In that way, your words of instruction will more likely be helpful to your child. Toddler¹s urge to climb is your cue to provide climbable objects other than furniture. Outdoor play equipment with a short ladder to climb or steps up to a slide would be good. Slides are ideal because a child climbs up, but slides down. Instead of discouraging climbing, provide Toddler with safe climbing experiences. By climbing, Toddler is learning about height and depth, about how to work her arms and legs together, about balance and holding on, and about how things look from "up there."

Courtesy Growing Child  http://www.GrowingChild.com

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