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Developmental Red Flags for Children Ages 3-5

By O. McAfee|D. J. Leong
Pearson Allyn Bacon Prentice Hall

Social–Emotional Development, Which Includes

  • Relationships 
  • Separations
  • Involvement
  • Focusing
  • Affect (mood)
  • Self-image
  • Anxiety level
  • Impulse control
  • Transitions

Red Flags

Be alert to a child who, compared with other children the same age or 6 months older or younger, exhibits these behaviors:

  • Does not seem to recognize self as a separate person, or does not refer to self as “I”
  • Has great difficulty separating from parent or separates too easily
  • Is anxious, tense, restless, compulsive, cannot get dirty or messy, has many fears, engages in excessive self-stimulation
  • Seems preoccupied with own inner world; conversations do not make sense
  • Shows little or no impulse control; hits or bites as first response; cannot follow a classroom routine
  • Expresses emotions inappropriately (laughs when sad, denies feelings); facial expressions do not match emotions
  • Cannot focus on activities (short attention span, cannot complete anything, flits from toy to toy)
  • Relates only to adults; cannot share adult attention, consistently sets up power struggle, or is physically abusive to adults
  • Consistently withdraws from people, prefers to be alone; no depth to relationships; does not seek or accept affection or touching
  • Treats people as objects; has no empathy for other children; cannot play on another child’s terms
  • Is consistently aggressive, frequently hurts others deliberately; shows no remorse or is deceitful in hurting others

How to Screen

  1. Observe child.
    • Note overall behavior. What does the child do all day? With whom? With what does child play?
    • Note when, where, how frequently, and with whom problem behaviors occur.
    • Describe behavior through clear observations. Do not diagnose.
  2. Note family history.
    • Make-up of family: Who cares for the child?
    • Has there been a recent move, death, new sibling, or long or traumatic separation?
    • What support does the family have—extended family, friends?
  3. Note developmental history and child’s temperament since infancy.
    • Activity level
    • Regularity of child’s routine—sleeping, eating
    • Distractibility
    • Intensity of child’s responses
    • Persistence/attention span
    • Positive or negative mood
    • Adaptability to changes in routine
    • Level of sensitivity to noise, light, touch
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