Parental Rejection of Gay Teens May Increase Health Risks

What This Means to You

Most medical professionals believe that sexual orientation involves a complex mixture of biology, psychology, and environmental factors, and that in most cases sexual orientation is not something a person chooses.

It's likely that all the factors that result in someone's sexual orientation are not yet completely understood. What is certain is that LGB teens want to feel understood, respected, and accepted — particularly by family members. That's not easy in all families.

Almost all teens have questions about reaching physical maturity and about sexual health. Because these can be difficult topics, it's especially important for LGB teens to find someone knowledgeable who they can trust and confide in.

In many communities, youth support groups can provide opportunities for gay teens to talk to others who understand. And psychologists, psychiatrists, family doctors, and trained counselors can help them cope — confidentially and privately — with the difficult feelings that can accompany their sexual orientation.

Parents can help by becoming more knowledgeable about issues of sexuality — and learning to be more comfortable discussing them. Some gay and lesbian support groups also offer information, advice, and help for family members. Parents also can help their teen gain access to a doctor or health professional who will provide reliable health advice.

Reviewed by: Steven Dowshen, MD Date reviewed: January 2009

Source: "Family Rejection as a Predictor of Negative Health Outcomes in White and Latino Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Young Adults," Pediatrics, Jan. 2009.