Quick Guidelines for Parenting (or Teaching) Kids with Attention Deficit Disorders
When there is a child with an attention deficit disorder, reducing stress within the home is a primary concern. Whatever the school can do to assist in this matter will be beneficial, not only to the child, but to the teaching staff as well. Parents need to be taught effective strategies for managing their child.
Since all children with ADHD are different, the management strategies for each will also be different. Consequently, it becomes extremely important that parents develop a thorough understanding of ADHD and the specific ways in which it impacts their own son or daughter. Having this understanding is probably the single most important factor to achieving a positive outcome for the child because it provides the foundation on which all other management strategies will be based. Knowledge empowers parents to deal more effectively with the disorder. Also, the child with ADHD should become an active participant in developing the compensatory strategies he or she will need to succeed in learning and in life.
A child with ADD/ADHD literally sees the world differently than other kids. Though each child is unique, special parenting methods should be used to bring out these kids' strengths in intellect and creativity and to compensate for problems with short term memory, oppositional behaviour, and obsessive compulsive tendencies. It is important to remember that kids with AD/HD can be remarkably purposeful. Helping them achieve their purposes is the best way to motivate them. For this reason it is essential to keep communications open so that you can determine what is currently important to your child in terms of goals, wants, and dreams.
Create positive alternative choices based on your child's purposes and encourage him/her to make a choice.
Example: If you want him/her to finish a project, say "Would you like ten minutes or fifteen to finish your project?" or; If you want him/her to get his homework done, say "When would you like to complete your homework so that you can have your friend over after school or after dinner?
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