Stress as a Factor in Social and Emotional Development
When we think about stress, we generally associate it with adult life rather than childhood. Over the last few decades, however, more and more people have been concerned about the levels of stress that even young children experience. David Elkind (2001) has been the most visible and well-known spokesperson for this issue.
Stress has always been a part of childhood. Making friends, going to grandma’s house, learning about the world around them, and living in a family are all examples of the normal stresses of growing up. But what Elkind and others are concerned about are the additional stressors children face today. While not every stressor is problematic, each has an additive effect that can eventually make life more difficult for children. Divorce, remarriage, violence and sexual themes on television, and the increased pressures of schooling are examples of potential stressors.
This combination of both normal and extra stress is making it difficult for many children to deal successfully with aspects of their social/emotional development. If stress is allowed to build, most children eventually reach a point of feeling overwhelmed, and developmental progress suffers. For example, a common response from children of divorce is that they feel responsible for their parents’ breakup (Elkind, 2001). If these feelings are not worked through with the assistance of caring adults, they can cause children to devalue themselves as individuals and may negatively affect not only their overall self-esteem but their social development as well.
What are the major factors causing children stress? Some have already been briefly mentioned, but the following list helps clarify the most significant issues.
The most common stressor faced by today’s children is divorce. However, remarriage, two-career families, and gay parents are other examples of family situations that can cause children stress. For example, a young child in a two-career family may experience what Elkind (2001) calls change overload from being shuttled between early morning care, school, and late afternoon supervision.
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