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Your Parenting Style
Parenting is the ultimate learn-as-you-go endeavor. And few parents have more than a vague notion of how they’ll do it until they are doing it. But parenting style matters—not just because it affects the way children turn out, but because it affects your relationship with them.
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What You Need to Know
- Peaceful Parenting (Greater Good Science Center)
- Transition Points: Helping Students Start, Change, and Move Through the Grades (NYU Child Study Center)
- Be a Good Role Model: Someone is Watching You (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services)
- Healthy Habits for TV, Video Games, and the Internet (The Nemours Foundation)
- Why Time-Out Doesn't Work for All Kids and Other Secrets From Temperament-Based Parenting (NYU Child Study Center)
- Involved Parents: The Hidden Resource in Their Child's Education (NYU Child Study Center)
- Are You an Overly Involved Parent? (NYU Child Study Center)
How You Can Help
- Being "In Control" — The Possible and Impossible in Parenting (Hand in Hand)
- Handling Children’s Feelings in Public Places (Hand in Hand)
- The Hidden Benefits of Being an Involved Father (University of Florida IFAS Extension)
- Ten Tips for Parenting Gifted Girls (Davidson Institute for Talent Development)
- Raising Responsive and Responsible Children (NYU Child Study Center)
- Temper Tantrums: How to Deal With a Meltdown (NYU Child Study Center)
- Nine Steps to More Effective Parenting (The Nemours Foundation)
Marriage and Relationships
- Marriage, No Marriage and Happy Marriage (Greater Good Science Center)
- Binuclear Family (Greater Good Science Center)
- From My Experience: Rona Renner on Marriage (Greater Good Science Center)
- How to Fight in a Relationship (Greater Good Science Center)
- 5 Hours to a Better Relationship (Greater Good Science Center)
The Case Against Competition
When it comes to competition, we Americans typically recognize only two legitimate positions: enthusiastic support and qualified support. The first view holds that the more we immerse our children (and ourselves) in rivalry, the better. Competition builds character and produces excellence. The ...
Reference | Alfie Kohn
Raisin' Brain: Maintaining Homes for All Kinds of Minds
School is not the only arena in which children's minds need to be nurtured and expanded. Equally vital is the kind of education and brain building that a student undergoes at home. Parents can do much to establish a domestic milieu that helps every child to develop his or her very special and ...
Reference | All Kinds of Minds
Activities for Gifted Children: From Birth to Five
Baby's brain Scientists say a baby's brain is a fascinating bundle of neurons just waiting to be hard-wired into the intricate circuitry we call the mind. The wiring of the brain begins at birth and continues until age 10 or 12 when it is wired for life, according to these findings. Some ...
Reference | American Association for Gifted Children
Building Your Child's Character
We live in a time when teaching our children to be virtuous is especially challenging. Youngsters are surrounded by political sound-bites; outlandish promises from advertisers; and television programming and films filled with lying, gratuitous violence and sex as entertainment. As a parent, you ...
Reference | American School Counselor Association
Appropriate Use of the Internet
Trying to find helpful information regarding appropriate use of the Internet by children can be a challenge for parents and educators. One helpful site is NetSmartz, www.netsmartz.org, which was created by a partnership of the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children and the ...
Reference | American School Counselor Association
Positive Parenting Tips for Summer
For 180 days a year, school counselors work with students on how to express their feelings in appropriate ways, how to deal with their anger and how to cope with stressful situations. But what happens when school is not in session, especially during the extended summer break? As a parent, ...
Reference | American School Counselor Association
Turning College and Career Planning Into Family Communication
Once upon a time we knew a boy who wanted to become a part-time professional baseball player, part-time professional football player, part-time private businessman and part-time Captain America. We also knew a girl who wanted, despite artistic and literary talents, to become the ...
Reference | American School Counselor Association
Letting Kids Be Kids
We all know them, don't we? "Those" parents - the ones no one wants to sit with in the bleachers because they're so irritating. Recognize any of these folks? A young basketball coach has to call his own father for advice after he struggles with a "bleacher dad" who persists in ...
Reference | American School Counselor Association
An Integral Approach to the Social and Emotional Development of the Profoundly Gifted
Like all children profoundly gifted children have essential needs for connecting to others, for being understood, for expressing and exploring feelings and ideas, for reciprocal exchange and for friendship. The exceptional nature of PG children and their rarity in the population, ...
Reference | Davidson Institute for Talent Development
Tips for Parents: Perfectionism and the Profoundly Gifted Child
Editors Note: The following is a synthesis of information provided to parents from an online seminar on the subject of perfectionism and the profoundly gifted child. There is a continuum of definitions and values for being perfectionistic. Some are encouraging and inspire. Some are situation ...
Reference | Davidson Institute for Talent Development