Mommy guilt is something that everyone with kids deals with—it comes with the territory. And while feeling guilty about, say, letting SpongeBob parent your child, there are some things that you need to let go. "Push yourself to do these things, even when you feel guilty about it," Freson says, "and you will see that the guilt lessens over time." Skip the guilt and you'll have more time to actually enjoy your child. Nice going, Supermom!