Understand Where They’re Coming From
As a parent, it’s important to understand where the sibling rivalry stems from.
Parents are often stricter with their first child than with subsequent children, so when your older child says, “That’s not fair! I wasn’t allowed to stay up that late when I was his age!” he might actually have a point.
And when your younger child says, “You used to drag us to all of her volleyball games when I was little, but she never comes to mine,” she may not be exaggerating.
This doesn’t mean you have to change the way you parent now—when you have less time and more stress—but it means that you can empathize with your children a bit more easily when they start to compare.