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65% of Americans Spend More Time With Their Computers Than Their Spouses

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65% of Americans Spend More Time With Their Computers Than Their Spouses

It's hard to find time for family time. But a new study, conducted by independent research firm Kelton Research for support.com, found that three out of five Americans spend more time at the computer keyboard than they do with their significant other.

With a computer, there's no nagging to clean the kitchen, take out the garbage, or flip down the toilet seat. There's no sleeping on the couch. Still, like any relationship, it's not always smooth sailing. When describing their most recent computer problem, the majority of Americans (52%) said the experience filled them with "anger," "sadness," or "alienation."

Sound familiar? Experts say that technology can sometimes cause significant emotional distress, similar to what happens when a problem occurs between spouses. And the bad news is that our dependence on computers is growing – of over 1,000 people polled in Kelton Research's "Cyber Stress" study, 84% said that they are more dependent on their home computer now than they were just three years ago. The good news? Unlike marriage, if your computer is making you cry, it needn't be 'til death do you part... Just dump that turkey.

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  1. Apr 23, 2007
    kaplinsky1 says:
    Better log off now and go see the wife and kids :)
  2. Apr 27, 2007
    randfish says:
    That's me - about 80 hours a week with the machine.
  3. May 2, 2007
    bob says:
    How would the title of this article start out if it said "of American Kids Spend More Time With Their Computers Than Their Parents (or Friends)?"  It's tempting to point out that those of us in the 65% category are setting a bad example for our children, but I suspect the alternate title would change little if this article claimed "6.5%" instead of 65%.  
  4. Aug 5, 2007
    Zoomie says:
    Connectivity...it's the new hip thing.  Therein lies the problem.  What did we do before the internet, cell phones and pagers?  We lived just fine and with less aggravation.  Now our challenges are realtime and multiplying.  Whoo hoo!
  5. Aug 6, 2007
    joanna7181 says:
    Very true! We just moved our computer from the family room into the extra bedroom to decrease the amount of time spent on the computer at home.
  6. Aug 7, 2007
    Irene Kwan says:
    I totally agree because the Internet did change how people live their lives now than back then.  I mean when I go home, I would just turn on my computer right away to check emails, surf around the sites, log into instant messaging.  The computer for me is a greater entertainment than the TV.   I have friends that would be on YouTube and other similar sites for hours instead of studying.  Also, there are popular websites like Myspace that people would be on there the whole day.  I had a Myspace but I decided to delete my account because it of how addictive it can get!!!
  7. Aug 7, 2007
    tupou says:
    I guess my wife and I fall into the 35% of couples that don't have this problem, simply because our four year old twins will not allow us to.  We are constantly entertaining them or they are entertaining us.
  8. Aug 7, 2007
    akkhan says:
    This is so true! Whenever I am at home or even at school I'm basically glued to my computer.  People rely so heavily on technology nowadays, it makes you wonder how we survived so long without the internet and cell phones.
  9. Aug 25, 2007
    HFWM says:
    My 2yodd learned how to use the computer herself by watching and then experimenting.  We don't think she can read yet, but give her a mouse and a pile of CDROMs and she's off to the races!
  10. Sep 1, 2007
    ehizele omijie says:
    i agree with u becouse i like the machine alot. but i will say to couples that is very wrong. please go show love at home.
  11. Sep 8, 2007
    reena says:
    i would also like to be with my computer i think this would be one interesting and  helpful for teenage
  12. Dec 30, 2007
    Aline says:
    That's is a sad true. Every night I go to bed alone, because my husband is "busy" with his beloved computer. This is destroying our marrige. Stop before it is to late.
  13. May 31, 2008
    satish kumar says:
    I am satish kumar , lived in karnataka ,belgaum  district . And my hobby is reading a  news papers , magines , books &  playing  cricket , basket ball , volly ball , .....

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