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Is Boarding School Right for Your Child?

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by Hannah Boyd
Topics: Boarding Schools
Is Boarding School Right for Your Child?

We’re all familiar with the Hollywood version of boarding schools: immaculate grounds, rich kids, unfeeling parents sending their children away. For families seeking stellar academics, a diverse, international student body and an early dose of responsibility, the picture’s a lot more complex.

“For so many boarding school parents, sending their kids away is one of the hardest things they will ever do... emotionally and often financially,” says Libby Peard, parent relations coordinator at Choate Rosemary Hall, a boarding school in Connecticut. “However, they make whatever sacrifices are required so that their children are given limitless opportunities to learn and to grow in academic communities not always available to them closer to home.”

Talk to any boarding school student and they’ll say the same thing; academically, boarding schools set the standard. The top boarding schools have an admissions process and acceptance rate similar to America’s most elite colleges, and students apply from all over the world. Teachers live on campus and in dorms, so students are surrounded by mentors and advisors.

“I really loved the experience and gained so much more independence than I would have being at home. I learned invaluable study skills which more than prepared me for college,” says Willow Oberweger, who graduated from Deerfield Academy in Massachusetts.

Ironically, parents who assume boarding school graduates get a free pass to a top college are often disappointed. “If I had remained at my public high school and pushed my way into all AP classes, I may have been able to get into more top tier colleges,” concedes Oberweger, pointing out that competition for admission to popular colleges is fierce at boarding schools. Nonetheless, the matriculation list of graduating classes tends to be impressive.

For students and parents alike, that’s often beside the point. They point to the close friendships formed on campus, the loyalty to the alma mater, the access to a network of successful alumni, and the discipline and responsibility kids learn, as the true benefits of boarding school.

While America’s elite has long recognized the benefits of boarding schools, administrators say they’ve made a concerted effort to reach out to communities who haven’t traditionally considered them. To make their campuses more diverse and welcoming, most boarding schools offer scholarships and seek out minority and underprivileged students.

It may not be as glamorous, but the real world version of boarding school life is far more complex – and educational – than the Hollywood one.

Further Resources

Interested in boarding schools but unsure of the options? For a list of schools, click on  http://www.schools.com, the website of The Association of Boarding Schools.

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  1. Sep 19, 2007
    leuisc says:
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  2. Jan 25, 2008
    robin conwit says:
    We are considering sending our older son to boarding school, primarily because of the combination of his interests (3 competitive team sports, french horn) and abilities (very independent with superior math and science but need for improving written language).  He has applied to 5 boarding schools and we should know in march.  I am still considering that he continue in the local public school GT program.  What questions do we need to ask in order to make a decision of which school he should attend?
  3. Apr 12, 2008
    anita says:
    I think boarding school is not right for children because it make student
    unhappy but its education system is very good for children.
  4. May 4, 2008
    Mary says:
    I am interested in going to boarding school this fall, but I'm very nervous about leaving my family and friends behind. I know that many people that I tell will not react well. Any advice on breaking the news gently?
  5. May 15, 2008
    Deependra says:
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  6. May 17, 2008
    ricky says:
    my daught likes boarding school very much thank you for those comment and well done too BOARDING SCHOOL TO ME YOU SHOULD GET A PRIZE. THANK YOU ..XX
  7. May 17, 2008
    ALISON says:
    HELLO I AM RICKY DAUGHT ALISON HELLO BOARDING SCHOOL I HOPE YOU ARE READYING THIS NOW I WILL LOVE TO COME TO BOARDING SCHOOL IT LOOKS FUN AND I THINK I WILL ENJOY IT TOO BYE NOW BOARDING SCHOOL BYE BYE WELL DONE NOW BYE SEE YOU SOON I HOPE BYE
  8. Sep 20, 2008
    janita says:
    hello myy child would like to come to bourding school real much thank bye i like your website

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