The Bored Student

But what about the bright child who’s bored in the classroom? The bright kindergartner, for example, who reads Harry Potter at home but has to sit quietly at school while his classmates sound out Hop on Pop—is it realistic to expect that he should be motivated to listen quietly? Or is it more realistic to expect that this child should be secretly building a spitball empire?

Spevak explains that he begins working with children at age 8 because this is the age when most children can really comprehend the concept of self-motivation. For kindergartners who are bored with the baby-ish centers and low-reading level books, it’s going to be up to the parent, Spevak says, to help create the right environment for the child—both at home and at school.

“In the classroom it’s a little more difficult because I believe strongly that you can’t force interest, and a classroom teacher doesn’t have the direct impact that a parent can have,” Spevak says.

What about the concept of bringing in more stimulating curriculum—curriculum that can engage all students and be adapted to match the developmental level of the students?

Even parents of those bright but bored children can recognize the complexity and difficulty of keeping 25 or 30 kindergartners stimulated and engaged. There are always the handful of children who fall above or below the continuum, and a teacher only has so many hours in the day.

Jenifer Fox, former elementary and high school principal and author of Your Child’s Strengths, says children today are growing up with higher expectations in terms of stimulation, mostly because of the new technologies that they have ready access to at home. “Kids need to be stimulated in the classroom as much as they are outside of the classroom in order to be engaged, and any time we spend arguing that is wasted time,” Fox says.

Fox suggests that parents make an effort at the beginning of the school year to engage their child’s teacher in a dialogue. Parents should let the teacher know that they want to be partners in their child’s education, and that they want to help and serve as a resource for the teacher in any way they can. This will set the stage, Fox says, for parents to later bring in exciting Web-based or other curriculum ideas that they believe will be stimulating for their child. “Parents have to establish some sort of rapport with the teacher so the teacher sees that they’re teaming with them in order to help the child,” Fox says.

Boredom in school, Fox says, can lead to stress. “If you’re bored and you’re a kid in school, you’re going to have to engage your mind somewhere else. But the minute that you start to feel like you want to engage somewhere else, you’re also aware that you’re going to get in trouble for it.” Fox explains that this is a lot of pressure on school-age children who simply need more interesting and stimulating curriculum.

It’s unlikely that the solution to boredom in school will be either/or. Most parents have to model living engaged and active lives, and they also have to partner with their children’s teachers.

At home, as Belton says, parents can support their children’s creativity and exploration by providing them time, space, basic materials (blankets, flashlights, magnifying glasses, paper and pencils, dress-up clothes, etc), and the opportunity to make a mess. “Bored children need parents who know how to be playful!” Belton says.