Be very careful as a victim of a pedofile. Some behavior is not appropriate. This is not a behavior that should be encouraged. She may  miss her dad  but it is crossing lines. Not saying he's a pedofile but such behavior should be  discouraged and not encouraged.This is her dad not her husband. I would be upset by this behavior.

This type of behavior would be considered questionable through the eyes of an educator. If her friends come over and observe this behavior, they will tell their parents. This may result in social services visiting your residence for possible child abuse. While it may have been "cute" in her younger years, it is not socially acceptable and frowned upon at her age. Seek counseling for him and his daughter. Since you do not have any ties with this person, I suggest leaving.

Hi, they do go to consuling now for her not wanting to come to our house because she doesn't like that we touch or kiss or sleep in the same room. I never been to a session only mom and my boyfreind. Neither one has ever told the professional about her clinging ness. But my boyfreind and I had a talk and he talked to her about her behavior and she has seemed to understand thats not what ten year olds do. She has so many issues I think most come from mom telling her that dad will be taken from her or mom is so mean to her maybe she is starving for affection haven't figured it out yet . She also slept with both parents until this year and has very low self esteem and is very overwieght. She was in consuling before when she was five for same issues. Now mom found out she was pregant and no boyfreind and told her and how it happened, two weeks after that she lost the baby.This child knows way to much and has mother with bad parenting skills I guess. Atleast she is in consuling and maybe they can save this child.