Hopefully an expert in CAPD will chime in, and seeking the advice of experts is almost always a good thing. There is an excellent resource in my area on CAPD, Judith Paton. Google search her and you'll find her easily. If you live in the San Francisco bay area, seeking her out for an eval and consultation would be a good idea.
There are a lot of things, in my personal experience with CAPD, that can help. Some of it concerns expectations and coping behaviors. For a student, if you are facing a foreign language requirement in school, seek an IEP that acknowledges the CAPD and make accommodations for it. Don't try to satisfy the foreign language requirement with a language that is highly distinct from your son's native language - for English speakers, I think Spanish or German would be better than Japanese. An all-verbal course (like the popular language CDs) probably won't work very well. One therapist told me recently that she often gets college students coming to her unable to pass a foreign language requirement, only to be tested positive for CAPD, and this is their first diagnosis. You are fortunate to have found this early.
Other things I've learned over the years are
* Write out instructions for him; it is likely that he can understand written instructions better than verbal (you probably already know this).
* Make sure he sits in the front of the class. If the teacher seats students alphabetically, seek an accommodation that allows him a front row seat.
* Speak directly toward him and make sure the teachers know this, too. "Point your mouth towards him" is something to remember.
* Make sure he can type; get him into a typing course early if not. CAPD's often are far better in written communication than in verbal.
* Speak clearly and distinctly and precisely in complete sentences and thoughts. Remember that CAPD's can have trouble sorting out sounds into words, so the ... more ... distinct ... your ... words ... are ... and ... separated ... from ... each ... other the better he will understand you. Some CAPDs, even when they hear all of the words distinctly, conjure up a dozen interpretations of what was said and aren't able to pick the one that is best in the context. Also, finish your sentences, stop, and give him time to process.
* Create a quiet environment for him to study and do homework in. It can be difficult for CAPDs to tune anything out. Earplugs might help.
More things will probably come to me in the next day and if so, I'll follow up with more.
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