How do I get my 17 y.o. son with Aspergers to shave regularly and care about his appearance?
My 17 yr old son showers 2x daily but doesn't always use soap, so he has an acne problem. He doesn't remember to wash his hair or comb it. I've let him grow a beard to cover the acne (which is aggravated by shaving), but he doesn't get the concept of defining a beard instead of just looking like a mountain man. If I comment, he gets defensive. I compliment him on how good he looks when he's neatly groomed, but it doesn't transfer to regular grooming. He doesn't seem to care about how he looks to others. Any ideas? Resources?