seharg asks:

About my 6 years daughter who is getting fed up from studies.

my  daughter  was  5.9  years  old  when  i  was  in  dubai now  i  came  here  in  pakistan.
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In Topics: Motivation and achievement at school, Discipline and behavior challenges
> 60 days ago



Boys Town National Hotline
Jul 7, 2011
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What the Expert Says:

Help your daugther by managing one task at a time.  When things get overwhelming is often when kids will shut down.  Take each assignment and test one at a time and once you get one done, then move onto the next.  School is a lot of work and it sounds like she has a really difficult school presently.  It may be worth it to eitehr get her a tutor or switch schools if it continues to be a problem for her to get her work done.  Moving and adjusting to a new school and culture is very difficult for a child.  Her poor performance in school may be related to the many changes she had in her life.  Perhaps after the summer when she is more adjusted she will have an easier time of it.  

Be patient, encourage her, and reward her when she does well.  This is just one difficulty of many she is going to face in her life and you can help her learn some resiliency and work ethic by encouraging her along.  

We wish you and her well!

Counselor, Dominic
Boys Town National Hotline

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