My 8 yr old adopted son (we got him when he was 4 yr old) has adhd and anxiety...is on meds for it... NOW he has started sneaking candy under his p.j's he also climbed up and got the magnet to open the locked cabinet and got a cold ease cough drop my husband caught him when he went to tuck him in...and my son denied it then my husband got him to open his mouth..we got cough drop back... but i dnt know what to do (first hide locks) but after that i dont know,it seems the more i track him the more he tries to sneak HELP any ideas.......
You are probably correct in your observation that the more you track him the more he tries to sneak. It could be somewhat of a game to him now. He also receives attention for it, even though it is negative attention. Getting into candy is one thing, but sneaking into the medicine cabinet is scary. Thank goodness he only took a cough drop and did not get into any liquid cold medicine!
Maybe you can have him earn sweet treats as rewards for having a good day and following directions. Think about reducing the amount of candy you give him and replace it with fruit and yogurt. Even cookies are better than candy. These sweet treats are also harder to hide under PJ's!
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