I believe my 20 year old son has Asperger's. What do I do?
He is an intelligent 20 year old boy with full time job as an It-consultant. At home he always sits in his room with the computer. He meet the only friend he has once or twice a month. They play games on the computer.
He did well at school, and he never caused me or the teachers any problem. He is silent, and never talk unless he had to. He is never angry, but he is never very happy either. He speaks in one tone, and he never raises his voice. He don't care about what other people think of him. He do have social problems and he avoid people if he can. He says that he have problem with speech, and he can do something with his mouth sometimes when the word doesn't come out right. He can say things that doesn't fit in. He doesn't seem to care about other people at all. He doesn't spend money unless he had to, so his bank account is well filled up.
I think he has learned what to do in special situations. He can ask me how it was at work today an so on, but I think he really doesn't care. He is trying to fit in. He is an intelligent and well informed boy that knows a lot of things that other people never read or heard about. There are many things that makes him feel uncomfortable such as special noises, clothes with pictures and stripes, words that is spelled wrong.
My question is: Do I do anything about this?