Hi Nicole,

Thanks for reaching out to Education.com

You don't mention the age of your child, but in most states in the US, parents are legally responsible for the care of their children until they turn 18 years of age. That is the reason why you could be charge with neglect if you refuse to let him come back in your home. If you make a legitimate plan for your child to live somewhere such as another family members home or in a residential center, you would not be charged with neglect. Jail can help to scare some kids to where they will not repeat their mistakes. But for many other kids spending time in jail is not enough. They need a therapeutic approach with counseling and support services which may include mandatory community service to get them to change their behaviors.

Here at Boys Town we provide many services for families who are struggling with their children. We have a toll-free Hotline which is available 24 hours. Trained parenting counselors can help you decide what is best for your son and for your family. We can also help you locate assistance in your area. Boys Town has several residential programs in the US for children ages 10-17 years old. We also provide in home family services, parenting classes and have a website for parents: www.parenting.org

Please reach out again and let us help you find the best place possible for your son. Take care and we hope to hear from you in the near future!

Sincerely,
Cynthia, Counselor
Boys Town National Hotline
1-800-448-3000
hotline@boystown.org