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How can a child heal after sexual abuse or rape?
Recently there was a news story out of New Jersey about a 7-year-old girl who had been gang-raped at a party that her teenage sister took her to (the news reports said the teenage sister had been prostituting herself and then offered up her sister too). There was also a story in California about a high schooler who had been gang-raped by adult men (and other teens) on campus during a school dance.

Stories like this break my heart, and I wonder about the long-term effects on the victims. Can children ever heal from such abuse, or are they thereafter hindered from having healthy relationships, a positive self-esteem, etc.? Obviously prevention of such tragedies is best, but how to help a child after they've been abused in this way?
In Topics: My child's growth and development, Physical Health, Teen issues
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Wayne Yankus
Apr 17, 2010
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Violence against children is a major developmental concern.  We are aware of these two very public cases, but some of our children/patients don't offer up their stories until many years later.  Recovery requires a team approach which includes family (if there is one), teachers, pediatricians, and therapists.  it takes years.  when this kind of tragedy happens, some states have "child abuse centers" and in fact it is a sub specialty of some pediatricians at hospital centers.  the NJ 7 year old was treated at such a center and all her support will come from there with the assistance of the school superintendent and mayor.  The Audrey Hepburn (movie star) Foundation has been instrumental in centering law enforcement and medical/social services in one spot for children so they are not remanded all over the hospital and police stations.  One such center exists at Hackensack University Medical Center in NJ and it is called The Little Red School House. It is off campus so as to be non threatening.

Every community needs to know what resources exist and if they don't, develop them as a priority for children.

Wayne Yankus, MD, FAAP
expert panelist: pediatrics
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Haltnow
Haltnow writes:
Love them, listen to them, let them know that it was not their fault.

http://www.haltnow.ca/abuse/52-child-sexual-abuse/153-preventing-sexual-child-abuse.html
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