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My childn's recent behavior problem at school
The problem I can detect is his lack of self control. when he gets angry at someone who teased him, he does not know how to use verbal ability to respond, instead he becomes physically aggressive. He did not have this kind of problem at preschool.
at his class, there is this girl teasing him and calling name and he does not like it or like her, so he hit her on the arm.
I think it has something to do with my own behavior toward parenting - impatient, losing temper easily, raising my voice, yelling at the kids or scolding them when they do something wrong. I am not a calm person although i try to. i get freaked out easily. i dont know it is genetic or i was raised that way. (my parents are not great parents and are not my role models.) i try to correct my action but I don't know how.
my son does not talk about what happened at school in details to me. It frustrated me not knowing what was really going on.
When I talked to him about not hitting, I also threaten him at the end that he will get kicked out of school if he doesn't stop. is it ok?
do i take accountability for what is going with his development? what can I do to direct him to control himself? what can i do to provide a good role model for my child to learn from? will this phase be passed under my supervision.