She has been in a pre k setting for day care the last two years, she is smarter than most of the kids in her class. She started having a rough time at nap time and it has spread to the whole day. They do a behavior chart with her where she goes to a buddy room for 30 mins then it's for an hour if she's bad two more times. I go during nap time to get her to sleep when I can and on those days she's great but my husband and I are dual military and it's hard to get out for things, plus my husband is about to deploy and I feel she will get worse then. I need help. We have tried everything from bribes to punishments. HELP!