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How to deal with the pain of it?
It is soooo painful for me when my daughter asks for her father--or asks for his girlfriend. I don't let it show, and I tell her, "daddy misses you too and you will see him soon!" or I will say, "I know how much you love your daddy and he loves and misses you too." But inside it hurts like hell and I'm jealous and insecure. I am afraid that my daughter will choose her dad over me. There is nothing I can do about that, he and I have almost no contact. He continues to needle me and do small petty things to hurt me. I try to ignore it and try not to engage with him at all. He acts like I am the one who was cheating--he shows up with his girlfriend, tells me our daughter calls her 'mommie' etc.
I need feedback and emotional support.