pattiemc asks:

How to distinguish between AS and mild retardation?

I am a grandma/legal guardian of a wonderful 8 year old boy. After he was diagnosed with AS, I did some research on AS.  I can see many things that say AS but then many do not.  Is this normal? I was told that it was either AS or a mild retardation.  How do you really know for sure?
In Topics: Mental retardation
> 60 days ago

dgraab , Parent writes:
I would recommend that you continue following up with your grandson's pediatrician and/or get second or third opinions from other licensed pediatricians, particularly those who specialize in this area. Ask as many questions as necessary of these doctors until you feel comfortable with the accuracy of the diagnosis and learn what you can do to help your grandson.

For general information about Asperger's Syndrome (AS) and/or mental retardation, here are two related info centers on with a variety of articles in each:

I'm also including below a couple of other additional resources below you may find helpful.

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LouiseSattler , Child Professional writes:
A pediatrician can be a good start.  However, I know that public schools are fully able to help you, as well.  Please contact your grandson's school and ask for a meeting to determine the need for a psycho-educational evaluation. (Give your reasons in WRITING and save all forms and information in the school in a file. Date all papers.)   In essence, you are asking to determine your grandson's intellectual abilities and strength and weaknesses in a variety of learning areas, including socialization.  A full team of specialists in the schools should be able to help to determine if your grandson has Aperergers, Mental Retardation or another learning disorder that might be inhibiting his success in school.

There are many rights and regulations for this process.  Feel free to ask your school for the federal guide to parent/legal guardians rights. They should offer you a copy and a full explanation at the beginning of every meeting you have with them.  

Please note that I based this answer assuming your grandson is in public school and you reside in the United States or one of the territories of the U.S.
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