tiffy2000
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Am I a good friend?
My friends keep telling me i am not a good friend because they think i am talking behold there back but i am not talking behold there back do you think i and a good friend or not
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Friendships and peer relationships
> 60 days ago
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Hi tiffy2000,
There is a lot of information missing from your question and that makes it hard to determine an opinion of this particular situation. Keep in mind that any answer that you received would only be an opinion, so a little advice might be a better way for you to decide for yourself how to handle this.
To have a friend, you must be a friend. If there is a misunderstanding between you and your friends, then you need to talk to them to resolve it. If they feel that you have "behind their back" said things that hurts them or with harmful intent, it doesn't matter rather you did or not, the hurt feelings are still present. You need to talk to them, see why they feel that way and reassure them of your loyalty as a friend. One is not automatically given trust, one earns it. If you want to be a good friend, earn your friends trust and to begin to move in the right direction, talk to them about this.
There is a lot of information missing from your question and that makes it hard to determine an opinion of this particular situation. Keep in mind that any answer that you received would only be an opinion, so a little advice might be a better way for you to decide for yourself how to handle this.
To have a friend, you must be a friend. If there is a misunderstanding between you and your friends, then you need to talk to them to resolve it. If they feel that you have "behind their back" said things that hurts them or with harmful intent, it doesn't matter rather you did or not, the hurt feelings are still present. You need to talk to them, see why they feel that way and reassure them of your loyalty as a friend. One is not automatically given trust, one earns it. If you want to be a good friend, earn your friends trust and to begin to move in the right direction, talk to them about this.
> 60 days ago
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