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How can I get my hyper son to be prepared for 1st grade and sit still in class?

My son had to repeat kindergarten due to his behaviors. The second time the biggest concern is that he just does not sit still and follow direction. I try activities to wear him out but he has an endless amount of energy. Now I need him to just be able to sit still.
In Topics: Back to school, Learning issues and special needs, Discipline and behavior challenges
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BarbK
Jun 8, 2010
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This is a tough question.  First of all I am not a medical doctor, but will be answering this question based on my experience as a classroom teacher.  I would make these suggestions to parents who had children that had trouble sitting for short periods of time or couldn't stay focused.

Start with keeping a journal on your son's behavior - the good, bad and the ugly.  Write down times, what he ate, when happened just before.  Ask him to explain what happened to make him to become fidgety.  Are there specific times during the day when his behavior is better or worse?  Are you noticing anything in his diet that is trigging good or bad behavior?  Are there activities where he is totally focused for long periods of time?  Does he have trouble sitting when he is alone?  Or just when there are distractions around him?  You want to look for patterns, so try to keep detailed accounts of what is going on.

You may want to take him to see his pediatrician.  Explain to the doctor your concerns and what findings you found by keeping a journal.  He may want to run some basic blood tests to see if there is any type of imbalance.  It may be lacking a vitamin or his blood sugar could be out of whack.  

Ask the school for help.  They probably don't take parent requests for teachers, but ask them to match your son up with the teacher best capable to handle him.  Describe the kind of person he works for or tries to please the most.  

Practice short periods of time sitting with him working on different activities.  It might be reading together, putting together a model, playing with legos, etc.  You can model this behavior for him.  Afterward talk about it.  Ask him if it was hard?  Why was he able to sit and stay focused?  What made him get up and want to do something else?  

The link below found on Education.com will provide some information explaining how boys brains develop.  This might give you a little more insight as to what is going on in your son's head.

Hope this helps.
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RosieR
RosieR writes:
Some children (and adults) are light-sensitive.  If the classroom is lit by fluorescent lighting, or if it is extremely well lit naturally, your son may find that a few minutes sitting and concentration is impossible.  This is a problem many children suffer from into the rest of  their lives.  In a classroom environment where sitting and concentrating is important for success, this can be distressing to the individual. Having discussed this with the school/teacher:   Try:   a:   providing him with a helmet-type visor (to defray the light),  b:  dark glasses,   c: have him tested for Irlen Syndrome and respond to the strategies.   Or/and:  consider auditory sensitivity - loud voices, constant hum from voices, can also be distressing and lead to what is perceived as poor behaviour in the classroom  whilst the child endeavours to escape from the effects.  
Ex-special needs teacher.
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lynellen
lynellen writes:
Children who need to move often benefit from a "Sit and Move cushion" which allows gentle movement of the body while sitting.  The cushion can be purchased from www.theraproducts.com.

Have you had a speech and language person screen your son?  He may be having actual difficulty understanding or remembering the instructions. Your school should have someone available to do this.

I applaud you for being so proactive with your son!
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