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 How to motivate a lazzy, spoiled first grader

I help a child who is smart but lazzy, spoil and contends with me when he does not want to work?
In Topics: Motivation and achievement at school, Discipline and behavior challenges
> 60 days ago

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Boys Town National Hotline
Mar 28, 2011
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You do not state if you are the child's parent, child care provider, teacher or tutor. However, you can try to motivate this child by giving him opportunities to earn rewards for when he completes his work and when he does what he is told. A reward chart is an excellent tool for which the child can see how their behaviors affect their life. You can get ideas from him on what kinds of things interests him such as toys, sports, foods etc, and you can try to relate to him that way as well.

Praise is also a powerful motivator. Our Common Sense Parenting program believes that parents and teachers should praise children four times for every negative consequence given. In other words, the child should be hearing four more positive comments during the day than they hear negative comments.

If you are a parent, we ask that you call or e-mail our Hotline for more detailed information. Please check out our websites listed below for more parenting and teaching tips. If you work in a school, the school counselor or school psychologist may be a good resource. The United Way also has a large listing of resources and agencies and they can usually be reached by dialing 211 on your phone.

Thanks again for reaching out. Take care and best wishes to you!

Sincerely,

Cynthia, Crisis Counselor
Boys Town National Hotline
1-800-448-3000
hotline@boystown.org
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yoshiluv
yoshiluv writes:
You may need to find ways to encourage or even bribe the child until they get into a stage where they enjoy things.  I personally had to give my son prizes everyday for him to try to do good in school.  We have finally found out with him that he has ADHD and is taking medicine for it.  We had seen a lot of improvement in him and the prizes were able to slow down.  Of course we are having problems again with his meds and the bribery is back on the table.  
You could even try charts with stickers or other things.
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