Is this a normal father daughter relationship?????
As a child I grew up with both my parents. My mother never worked and would spend all her time with my brother, sister and I and my father was the workaholic who was home only on Sundays. It wasn't till I was older that I had a friend type relationship with my father. This isn't about him but about my current boyfriend and he's 14yr old daughter. He's ex had a falling out with the child and dumped her at my boyfriends place and ever since our relationship has changed. At first I was thinking the lengthy conversations and cuddling were fine especially since her mother left her. Then he would stare at her for long periods of time. (Im talking minutes not seconds) and flick her on her bottom to get her to go to bed. Then one day my daughter accidently left her phone on voice record and I played it back to hear him tell he's daughter she's sexy and how hot her body is. I couldn't hold off and confronted him with this and told him how wrong it was. He's response was weird. He cried and then told me he was a good person and he didn't realize it was that bad. Am I over reacting?? He also checks her underwear before washing them and notices discharge and asks me about them and when should she be on the pill? Do I have reason to doubt he's parenting style or should I be concerned?